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WHAT A MAN THINKS
Dr. Robb Thompson answers questions ladies sent in to find out what a man thinks.
Please send in your questions to info@center31.com
Q: Should a woman seek a man online? What is the appropriate way to meet a man?
A: I do not believe that it is the most ideal way to meet a man on the “internet”. The ideal way is Pr. 18:22 – he that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. There are relationships where people discover one another this way, but for the most part there are many more sad meetings than glad datings. The biblical route of pr. 18:22 is God’s ideal where you as a woman can never be wrong in God’s eyes.
Q: How does one know if they have a meek spirit?
A: Only you can be the one to answer that. It is not solved by a question. It finds it’s answer in peace.
Q: What things can I do to help my husband be all God has called him to be?
A: Be the kind of wife that only the Bible speaks about and opportunities will present themselves to you to prove your value.
Q: Why does it seem like most guys want girls to validate them (flirting) before they ever pursue? It seems they want a flirtatious response before they pursue.
A: Would you ever knock on a door that had a huge sign that said “No Trespassing” or would you gladly go toward the house that had a huge welcome mat on its front porch. There is always a balance between being too flirtatious and letting a guy know you are interested.
Q: Why do women have a fear of commitment?
A: Because they are uncertain about their choices and are afraid that the man they invest their lives in may not be willing to invest in them.
Q: Is a relationship based on feelings for each other going to fail? What about 2 unsaved people?
A: Feelings change. People change. Soon after your relationship has begun you will desire it to go to another level and without anything beyond feelings, sad to say, it has little foundation and will ultimately fail, whether the people are saved or unsaved. Salvation is very important to a marriage.
Q:How can a woman feel loved if her whole family is looking down on her, making fun of her in front of others and they are using her?
A: She has to get all the love and affection she needs from God. Ps. 62:1 says, “My soul finds rest in God alone.” That means only in God can our emotions truly be satisfied.
Q: How do you know when your husband loves you just for you and not because the Word tells him to, even though you want him to do the Word?
A: You should be very happy that you are loved regardless of the reason why, but love is more pure when it is driven by obedience to the Master.
Q: Why would my husband use the truth to hurt me, if he loves me? I am overweight.
A: Because you never want to ever expect those who hate you to be the ones to bring correction to your life.
Q: Why are some guys intimidated by women?
A: Because their mother raised them….Because women are no longer women. They are men in female bodies. The male specie has an internal respect for a female, but when she no longer acts like a woman he becomes confused and does not know how to respond, so he chooses to be intimidated by her rather than reject her.
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